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Lädt ... Fading Scars (2010. Auflage)von Paige Day
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Only time can heal Fading Scars--a true account of one family's journey through Traumatic Brain Injury. Paige and Mark -- both divorced, paramedic / firefighters -- brought two families together in the face of adversity. When a tragic motorcycle accident leaves Mark in the ICU, and their family in turmoil, Paige finds herself for the first time on the receiving end of a paramedic's empty promise: "The doctors are doing all they can to save him." But saving his life was only half the battle. In the months that follow, Paige learns about the mystery of Traumatic Brain Injury from the perspective of one who knows enough to hear a prognosis, and evaluate the real meaning behind the words: that her husband may never again be the man she fell in love with. In this true-to-life account, Paige draws on her family, the strength of her fellow fire fighters, and her faith to face the truth of her true love's Traumatic Brain Injury...and live through it. Told with blunt honesty, ripe humor, and bittersweet longing, Fading Scars is a must read for readers seeking a compassionate tale of hope through painful diagnosis. Keine Bibliotheksbeschreibungen gefunden. |
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The concept of grief without a body and a funeral is difficult, but happens. Not
because of an individual lost to sea and unrecoverable, but because of an incident
that changes the life of the injured and slowly recovering forever. We grieve for
the person they were, and will never be again.
This is that story, that very personal journey.
Mark and Paige became a couple, following divorces. They were given second chances at happiness and love. There would be hard work. Bringing together two families, for a second chance is never easy; family members, emotions, memories and alike that all need to be incorporated, included and tolerated is never easy despite how much you love the other person and the will to do so.
Together, they were now raising Paige's children with hopes, dreams and aspirations for the future. Wiped away, within, almost the blink of an eye. There is that moment of disbelief that what has happened has in fact happened. Being in that situation is dreadful, but to work within a profession where you see this happen to other people is worse. You know the drill, what will potentially happen, the next stage of the journey and the words of encouragement that will follow in order to give you hope. You stop being that professional and become the relative where you hope for a miracle that perhaps might not happen.
In this journey the injured survived, and the need for courage to continue as best as possible on the family path kicks in. The grief that the person, who once was has gone only to be replaced with a new version of a familiar person. Thinking of the domestic issues on a different level, the involvement and inclusion that are needed to ensure that the loved one still feels that they are part of the family process, without too much disruption. There is also the journey that the family left behind travel along. The stresses of almost thinking for both adults. It sounds easy, but is tough and needs courage, resilience and support.
The remembrance that the family includes children who need their Mum, need her reassurance and continued love. It becomes a balancing act, juggling all the different balls that occasionally do come crashing down then the guilt, and frustration that follows.
This is an incredibly powerful story that could happen to anyone of us. It is an emotional read and despite experiencing something very similar, but with a different outcome in my personal life I could identify some of the emotions experienced, the questions and guilt.
This is a journey that will travel with me for a while yet and two quotes that support the powerful reading are:
"That promise I made to my husband was going to be the hardest one I ever had to keep"
"Our family is my silver lining" ( )