A tender, personal journey, powerful and revealing--this little book deals with big issues. Who among us hasn't been guilty of such arrogance as, You can't be gay and a Christian? Many people struggling to find their spiritual way fail because they cannot name wounded God space. This book breaks new ground giving both the wound and the violence a face and a name. Written for anyone ever wounded by a church or any form of arrogant spirituality; counselors and clergy who are spiritual guides; family and friends longing to understand and help; and those guilty of spiritual violence.