Jessica Holmes

Canadian comedian Jessica Holmes shares her experiences with depression in Depression the Comedy: A Tale of Perseverance.

I think Holmes is an excellent comedian, and I love the idea of bringing a comedic approach to a book about depression, but some of the comedy aspect was a bit lost on me. However, I don’t know that I was in the best place to judge, as I was in a pretty dark headspace while I was reading it. Still, I think that there’s great value in a comedian writing about depression, as it helps to promote the idea that depression truly can happen to anyone.

Holmes uses a self-deprecating style throughout the book, taking ownership of words often used to stigmatize, like “loopy” or “nut”. She uses some interesting analogies, like describing depression as “the cold sore of the mind.” Advice from others was likened to adding “pressure to our hamster wheel of discouragement”.

Depression made her become firmly rooted to her sofa, in what she described as her “sofa-tastic lifestyle”. She describes other symptoms that will sound all too familiar to those of us with mental illness. She avoided her kids’ schoolyard because there were too many people, and also avoided her friends because she felt like a fraud around them. When asked by a produce to emcee a talk given by Oprah, her response was a half-hearted “neat”. Even though Oprah was on her vision board, there was not a “single trace of epic” and she decided to ignore the news and didn’t even think to tell her agent.

As a result of depression the author got into an anger-guilt-repeat cycle in her relationship, with a “nut/enabler dynamic”. For a period of time she was blaming all the problems on her husband, and while she thought she was being stealthy, her kids still picked up on it. She talks openly about how her sex life with her husband became non-existent, and how it felt too vulnerable to be intimate. She also freely admits that depression kept her from connecting to her kids. This made her feel guilty, and she “tried to make up for it by making every day like a trip to Disneyland”.

The book has some important messages for people who may not be familiar with depression. Holmes points out that “watching for signs of depression is a lifelong commitment”. She also writes that we need to persist in telling our stories until there is no more stigma around mental illness. I really appreciated her openness, and I’m glad that she’s using her public platform to educate people and challenge stigma.… (mehr)

This is a very interesting collection of stories... Each one takes an historical event and tweaks it, and then presents a story from that tweaked time period. I particularly enjoyed the fact that there was a brief explanation of precisely what had been tweaked, in the author's bio at the end of each story.

Each of these was enjoyable; my favorites were The Secret War, and One More Dawn.

I look forward to more anthologies from this group of authors.

This was an ARC copy provided to me by the publisher.… (mehr)

The eight stories within this book take the world we live in and make it something else entirely, simply by changing one fact. With some stories, that fact appears relatively minor on the surface, such as Caesar surviving to a ripe old age. Other authors change one major fact, such as with the choice to use nuclear weapons. Whichever fact each author changes within his/her chosen era, we are taken to a world that is, at times, unrecognizable as the one we now inhabit.

I love the concept for this book. The stories make us think about all the possibilities seemingly random events create for our future. One choice, by one person or by the masses, can and does alter the path we walk.

As with any anthology, I enjoyed some of these stories more than others. This had far more to do with content and the author's approach to a story than it did writing ability, as all of the stories are exceptionally well written.

A common undercurrent with these stories is tragedy and darkness. The authors didn't choose to change a detail for the better, though at times it might initially appear to be that way. Instead, we see the tragedy and chaos stemming from that one change. And we might ask ourselves, "What if?"… (mehr)