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(3.95) | 2 | Combining humor, honesty, and plainspoken advice, Momma Zen distills the doubts and frustrations of parenting into vignettes of Zen wisdom. Drawing on her experience as a first-time mother, and on her years of Zen meditation and study, Miller explores how the daily challenges of parenthood can become the most profound spiritual journey of our lives. This compelling and wise memoir follows the timeline of early motherhood from pregnancy through toddlerhood. Momma Zen takes readers on a transformative journey, charting a mother’s growth beyond naive expectations and disorientation to finding fulfillment in ordinary tasks, developing greater self-awareness and acceptance—to the gradual discovery of “maternal bliss,” a state of abiding happiness and ease that is available to us all. “Being a mother is one of the most amazing, miraculous, mysterious, dignifying, and illuminating things you will ever do.” In her gentle and reassuring voice, Karen Miller convinces us that ancient and authentic spiritual lessons can be as familiar as a lullaby, as ordinary as pureed peas, and as frequent as a sleepless night. She offers encouragement for the hard days, consolation for the long haul, and the lightheartedness every new mom needs to face the crooked path of motherhood straight on.… (mehr) |
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Die Informationen stammen von der englischen "Wissenswertes"-Seite. Ändern, um den Eintrag der eigenen Sprache anzupassen. Obaku said, "I do not say that there is no Zen, but that there is no Zen teacher."--Blue Cliff Record, case 11 At the moment of giving birth to a child, is the mother separaate from the child? You should study not only that you become a mother when your child is born, but also that you become a child.--Dogen Zenji Even poor or suffering people raise their children with deep love. Their hearts cannot be understood by others. This can be known only when you become a father or a mother. They do not care whether they themselves are poor or rich; their only concern is that their children will grow up. They pay no attention to whether they themselves are cold or hot, but cover their children to protect them from the cold or shield them from the hot sun. This is extreme kindness. Only those who have aroused this mind can know it, and only those who practice this mind can understand it. --Dogen Zenji Let go and make yourself independent and free, not being bound by things and not seeking to escape from things.--Yuanwu Sekiso Osho asked, "How can you proceed on further from the top of a hundred-foot pole?" Another eminent teacher of old said, "You, who sit on the top of a 100 ft pole, although you have entered the Way you are not yet genuine. Proceed on from the top of the pole, and you will show your whole body in the 10 directions." --Gateless Gate, case 46 In spring wind peach blossoms begin to come apart. Doubts do not grow branches and leaves. --Dogen Zenji Streams and birds Trees and woods All recite The name of the Buddha --Amitabha Sutra My life is one continuous mistake. --Dogen Zenji Within light there is darkness, but do not try to understand that darkness. Within darkness there is light, but do not look for that light. Light and darkness are a pair like the foot before and the foot behind in walking. --Sekito Kisen A monk asked Ummon, "What will it be when trees wither and leaves fall?" Ummon said, "You embody the golden breeze." --Blue Cliff Record, case 27 A monk asked Kyorin, "What is the meaning of Bodhidharma's coming from the West?" Kyorin said, "Sitting long and getting tired." --Blue Cliff Record, case 17 Right before your eyes, it has always been there. Facing the situation, why don't you speak? If you don't know it in your daily life, where will you look for it? Better find out. --Yuanwu Ummon said, "The world is vast and wide. Why do you put on your 7 piece robe at the sound of a bell?" --Gateless Gate, case 16 Desires are inexhaustible I vow to put an end to them. --The Bodhisattva Vows Yet in attachment blossoms fall, and in aversion weeds spread. --Dogen Zenji If you find one thing wearisome, you will find everything wearisome. --Dogen Zenji To study and practice the inheritance of the Buddha's ancestral wisdom is to bring forth the vital activity of having rice. --Dogen Zenji If you wish to know the truth, then hold to no opinions for or against anything. -- Seng-t'san Zuigan Gen Osho called to himself every day, "Master!" and answered "Yes, sir!" Then he would say, "Be wide awake!" and answer, "Yes, sir!" "Henceforward, never be deceived by others!" "No, I won't." --Gateless Gate, case 12 All evil karma ever committed by me since of old. On account of my beginningless greed, anger and ignorance. Born of my body, mouth and thought. Now I atone for it all. --Verse of Attonement Form is no other than emptiness, emptiness no other than form; Form is exactly emptiness, emptiness exactly form; Sensation, conception, discrimination, awareness are likewise like this. --Heart Sutra The moon above the clouds is ever the same; Valleys and mountains are separate from each other. All are blessed, all are blessed; Are they one or are they two? --Gateless Gate, case 35 Be aware of where you really are 24 hours a day. You must be most attentive. When nothing at all gets on your mind, it all merges harmoniously, without boundaries--the whole thing is empty and still, and there is no more doubt or hesitation in anything you do. --Yuanwu You may suppose that time is only passing away and not understand that time never arrives. --Dogen Zenji Why abandon the seat in your own home to wander in vain through the dusty regions of another land? --Dogen Zenji The more you talk and think about it, the further you wander from the truth. So cease attachment to talking and thinking and there is nothing you will not be able to know. --Seng-t'san You naturally arrive at the stage of unaffected ordinariness, which is the ultimate in simplicity and ease. But you never agree to sit there as though dead, falling into the realm of nothingness and unconcern. --Yuanwu Where there is no romance is the most romantic. --Hongzhi Words! Words! The Way is beyond language, for in it there is no yesterday no tomorrow no today. --Seng-t'san Students should know that the Buddha Way lies outside thinking, analysis, prophesy, introspection, knowledge and wise explanation. --Dogen Zenji Ummon addressed the assembly and said, "I am not asking you about the days before the 15th of the month. But what about after the 15th? Come and give me a word about those days." And he himself gave the answer for them: "Every day is a good day." --Blue Cliff Record, case 6 Practicing Zen is zazen. For zazen a quiet place is suitable. 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Die Informationen stammen von der englischen "Wissenswertes"-Seite. Ändern, um den Eintrag der eigenen Sprache anzupassen. If I can't control what my kid eats, what can I control? p. 89 The words my daughter will use are the ones she hears; the words I want her to use she must hear from me....How would I have her speak? With all the subtlety, comopassion, kindness, and power that is in my owon magical vocabulary, when I learn to talk. p. 107 Children are exemplars of the art of being. Whereever they are, they are completely immersed: in mud, in make-believe, in laughter, in tears, or in spaghetti sauce up to their eyeballs. ...This is the kind of losing in which everything is found. We, on the other hand, rarely lose ourselves in activity, but we are plenty lost nonetheless. p.129 We prize our thinking in a way that we value nothing else about our existence, and in so doing we think that without our thoughts we would surely cease to be. We exist when we are thinking just as we exist when we are not thinking... Thinking only produces more thinking! ...for the light to reach any depth at all, you have to stop thinking so much. p.130-131. The truth always reveals itself... This truth, this ultimate irrefutable truth, is what Buddhists call the Way. The other truth, the truth you try to figure out and manipulate, is called your way. Trying to make things go your way is complicated, harmful, and futile. p. 140 Happy is the sign that all is well and will be. It is the seed of faith, optimism, and commitment. It is such fertile ground. Everything thrives there. p. 165 You don't have to work so hard at this. You don't have to do so much. You don't have to endeavor to be natural, normal, and good. It happens by itself when you least expect it. If you are confused about what you should be doing, try this. Stop what you are doing. Take care of what is in front of you, when it is in front of you, and the confusion will pass. This is called the effort of no effort. No effort is what powers the universe. p. 145 | |
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