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Lädt ... Why Manners Matter: The Case for Civilized Behavior in a Barbarous World (2007)von Lucinda Holdforth
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Melde dich bei LibraryThing an um herauszufinden, ob du dieses Buch mögen würdest. Keine aktuelle Diskussion zu diesem Buch. Good, funny, and sad to think we need to be told why we need manners. ( ) A good essay in support of courtesy, replete with referential material. A cheery authorial style makes it an easy read, grammatical misadventure makes it a bit rough around the edges. Inclusion of anecdotal evidence referencing Talleyrand is my favourite element. To wit, "You're nothing but a shit in a silk stocking!" what ho, courtesy. I first picked this book up from the cruise ship library - an intersting moment because I was already seething about the lack of etiquitte and manners they becomes apparent when you cram 6,000 people onto a boat. Holdforthe starts by quoting Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Good manners are made up of petty sacrifices" - from there, she writes about how manners are more then just being nice; it's the fabric of how we interact with others, it means we can live without laws and morals. It smooths out the rough edges that always occurs when you have humans living together. I agreed with most of everything she said - I enjoyed how she explain manners as more then just an intricate set of rules and behaviors, but as more. I highly recommned this book to anyone interested in social behavior, manners, or just how people interact. Why manners matter. The case for civilized behaviour in a barbarous world by Lucinda Holdforth is a very light-weight essay about manners. There is another edition which has the subtitle: Why Manners Matter: What Confucius, Jefferson, and Jackie O Knew and You Should Too. The author describes herself as " a speech writer, writing consultant and author". Although the author claims that Why manners matter rises above the mere complaint about the decline of good manners in the world, what most other publications would, the tone of this book is also mainly set by that same litany of complaint. The essay brings together a wealth of snippets of information about historical views on manners, in Wikipedia-style fashion, worthy of every high school kid's essay writing. In her search for delightful details the author regularly misses the point and digresses the borders of good taste, about which she is supposedly writing. The book is clearly the product of a childish mind, ill-researched and circular reasoning. A book full of platitudes, adding nothing to the discussion at hand. This is a surprisingly delightful essay on manners. Not the keep your elbows off the table, don’t chew with your mouth full manners (although in the end, that’s what it would trickle down to) but the importance of civil, mannerly behavior on society as a whole. Lucinda Holdforth includes a lot of interesting historical notes and has a lovely conversational style. I didn’t expect to read this cover to cover but I did. And I can’t help but think that, more and more, we could use a little more of the social niceties to keep us civil. Zeige 5 von 5 keine Rezensionen | Rezension hinzufügen
This is not a book about etiquette. It is a book about qualities that these days are seen as rather old-fashioned, unnecessary or quaint, about a way of behaving that no one really has time for anymore, but which, the author argues, is vital for the recovery and survival of our world. Manners reflect the values of the society from which they spring and influence the direction that society takes. Manners matter, not because manners are an absolute good in themselves, but because they beneficially shape how we interact with each other, how we make things work, how we nurture our individual humanity and our wider communities. If civilization matters, then so do manners. Manners matter because they lead to happier, kinder and more effective societies. This delightful and incisive short book takes the themes of Lynne Truss's 'Talk to the Hand' one step further and will entertain, provoke and satisfy anyone who has ever been frustrated by the rudeness of others. Keine Bibliotheksbeschreibungen gefunden. |
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