This stylish social and psychological novel examines early 20th century German and Danish titled societies and their sociosexual mores. The main character is a middle-aged German count with plagued by a galling mid-life crisis that draws him astray and threatens his long-time reasonably happy (but not quite totally satisfying) marriage to a wife he's all too aware he doesn't measure up to; as well as well as risking his treasured family life with two adolescent children, dogs, a beautiful newly constructed castle and all the best, most tasteful furnishings and comforts pertaining thereto.
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Irretrievable is the story of a failing marriage, set in the border area between Germany and Denmark. Helmut Holk and Christine Arne have been married for 19 years and have children who are almost grown. They are very different people - Helmut is outgoing and sociable and Christine is reserved and religious. Even so, things have always been good between them. When we join the story, Helmut is feeling restless and the two are growing apart. He goes across the bay to Denmark to spend time in the aging Princess's court where he meets two lovely young women.

This book has a lovely setting. Helmut and Christine live in a beautiful home they built on a cliff overlooking the sea. And Fontane writes beautiful characters and situations with precision and insight. I really enjoyed this book. Recommended for readers who enjoy this era. ( )

This was an "odd" book, not necessarily in a bad way. It was basically the story of a disintegration of a marriage. The author asks the question about what really makes a marriage "happy", or is there even such a thing? The writing and vocabulary were top-notch. The story was very slow moving and annoyingly changed narrators during the last chapter. All of the main characters were silly and I really didn't care for any of them. Perhaps that's what the author wanted? I did learn a lot about Schleswig-Holstein and Denmark, though! ( )

Here is the truth, I read this book because of the title. I am taking part on a reading challenge and one of the more interesting tasks was to read 3 books with titles that would form a “spine poem” (you can check more here http://www.tumblr.com/tagged/book spine poetry ). Anyway, I needed to read Irretrievable because I had already invested too much time on the other 2 titles and I was not about to start it all over again. But I got very close to giving it up.

At the end I finished and I am glad I did because the last 1/4 of the book was rewarding. It is just one of those books that takes forever creating a scene and a mood before letting the plot move forward. It is however an interesting commentary on married life, and although marriages have changed profoundly in the past 120 since this book was first published, certain aspects of married life are consistent though the ages: we get tired of one another and certain qualities of our personality can became irritating to the other.

I really wish it had been a short story or novella though.
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A near perfect novel on the death of a marriage due to incompatibility and infidelity. The setting is mid-19th Century Denmark. It is beautifully rendered. The time is that quiet decade between the revolutions of 1848 and the expansion of Prussia. Many of the scenes involve court life in Copenhagen.

The pacing is exquisite. The characters reveal themselves primarily through dialogue and are only minimally explained by the omniscient narrator. The story moves slowly, each scene adding to the plot but never feeling forced or functional.

Were I a teacher of fiction, I would dissect this book. It is a touchstone that makes Madame Bovary seem clumsy in comparison. ( )