The best kind of generosity is done with others, not for others. People of means and substance are growing weary of fundraising run by charity leaders who've adopted the tactics of professional salespeople. They're looking for ways to make change that's important to them, rather than just responding to an endless stream of appeals and campaigns. They may have been taught to donate and volunteer as part of their faith or family tradition, but they haven't learned how to do so in a way that is effective and meaningful. In Connected for Good, John Stanley explores the Generosity Gaps-places where men and women hold back their giving. • Some say, 'It's not the right time.' They're busy with work and family, and they're waiting for a better moment when giving will be easier. • Others say, 'I don't have enough.' They're worried about losing ground on their financial standing and providing for future generations. • Still others say, 'I might be making a difference, but I'm not seeing lasting ...