Explores the differences between genders & the solutions for ailing relationships from two unique perspectives: the ancient religious traditions of cabalistic Judaism & Vedanta. Using stories, jokes & Biblical examples, Boteach describes relationships & spiritual energies from the Jewish perspective. Chopra delves deeper into the spiritual side, explaining that we are closest to true spirituality & our own potential as human beings when we are in a state of passion. They discover several common threads, including the notion that we need both passion and intimacy to restore health to our relationships & our society