Sue Johnson (1) (1947–2024)
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Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy in the Independent Tradition (Efpp Clinical Monograph Series) (1999) 5 Exemplare
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- 1947-12-19
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- 2024-04-23
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- Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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Offenses can fester for decades despite the husband’s attempts to care for his wife. No matter how good the husband is, she will still be distant since the underlying hurt has not been addressed. (Chapter 5: Forgiving Injuries)
A.R.E is often mentioned. Here is the definition from the Internet. (It is eventually defined in the glossary at the end of the book.)
A.R.E. conversation :
A accessible
R responsive
E emotionally engaged
Contents
The Seven Conversations
1. Recognizing the Demon Dialogues
2. Finding the Raw Spots
3. Revisiting a Rocky Moment
4. Hold Me Tight - Engaging and Connecting
5. Forgiving Injuries
6. Bonding Through Sex and Touch
7. Keeping Your Love Alive
Part Three
- Healing Traumatic Wounds - the Power of Love
- Ultimate Connection - Love as the Final Frontier
"If I had to summarize the lessons I’ve learned from all these couples, they would look like this: "
* Our need for others to come close when we call — to offer us safe haven — is absolute.
* Emotional starvation is a reality. Feeling emotionally deserted, rejected, or abandoned sparks physical and emotional pain and panic.
* There are very few ways to cope with our pain when our primary needs for connection are not met.
* Emotional balance, calm, and vibrant joy are the rewards of love. Sentimental infatuation is the booby prize.
* There is no perfect performance in love or sex. Obsession with performance is a dead end. It is emotional presence that matters.
* In relationships there is no simple cause and effect, no straight lines, only circles that partners create together. We pull each other into loops and spirals of connection and disconnection.
* Emotion tells us exactly what we need, if we can listen to it and use it as a guide.
* We all hit the panic button at times. We lose our balance and slip into anxious controlling or numbing and avoiding modes. The secret is to not stay in these positions. It’s too hard for your lover to meet you there.
* Key moments of bonding, when one person reaches for another and the other responds, take courage but they are magical and transforming.
* Forgiving injuries is essential and only happens when partners can make sense of their own hurt and know that their lover connects and feels that hurt with them.
* Lasting passion is entirely possible in love. The erratic heat of infatuation is just the prelude; an attuned loving bond is the symphony.
* Neglect will kill love. Love needs attention. Knowing your attachment needs and responding to those of your lover can make a bond last until “death us do part.”
* All the clichés about love — when people feel loved they are freer, more alive, and more powerful — are truer than we ever imagined. (91%)… (mehr)