Mary Collins (1) (1961–)
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Mary Collins is a freelance writer and researcher. She teaches nonfiction writing in the Master's program at Johns Hopkins University. She has worked as a freelance writer and editor for National Geographic the Smithsonian, and Time-Life Books for the past 12 years
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One thing that struck me was that, once a person decides to transition to their true selves, no one is allowed to express concern (about hormones, surgeries, etc) without being deemed unsupportive. I fully supported my son’s transition, but I was concerned about the risks of such major surgeries and the lifelong hormone treatments. As Mary Collins says in this book, there was nowhere to discuss these worries, no place to grieve the loss of a daughter (while simultaneously celebrating the newborn son). I still puzzle about what to do with his baby photos.
The discussions between the two writers broke my heart a bit. How could she cut him off because he was taking hormones? How could she do that? Why did he not tell his mother what he was doing, and avoid her for months? I grieve for their losses.
Fortunately, Mary and Donald have found their way back to each other. I think this book could be of help to many parents who are living with a transitioning child, and many transitioning people who are angry at their parents for not being gung ho supportive. Mostly, it emphasizes the need to speak to each other, to take time to understand and listen without judgement.… (mehr)