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Lädt ... Love Between Equals: How Peer Marriage Really Worksvon Pepper Schwartz
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"...any couple contemplating marriage or reevaluating an existing one will find powerful information and encouragement here for a true marriage of minds." -- Kirkus Reviews "Pepper Schwartz is remarkable. She explains to us the possibilities for relationships that remain for so many a fantasy. This book is a necessity for anyone who wants to understand how partnerships work but more importantly wants to really love." -- Wendy Wasserstein, Playwright: author of Isn't It Romantic?, The Heidi Chronicles, and The Sisters Rosensweig Keine Bibliotheksbeschreibungen gefunden. |
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Being in a peer marriage myself, this book gave me a lot of comfort. We have dealt with a lot of the problems mentioned in the book and we've reaped almost all of the benefits mentioned as well. It made me feel like we were a little less alone in the endeavor to attempt peer marriage, though we wouldn't have thought to call it that on our own. It's good to have a reference now and somewhere to direct people who want to know a bit more about it.
The segments on traditional marriage made sense and seemed to line up pretty well with most of the people I've known in these marriages too. It was also interesting to see how easy it can be to fall away from peer marriage, into what she calls near-peer and then into traditional marriages as we let society, culture, work, children or whatever else put too much weight on our ideals. Children and parenting get their own chapter, as does the provider role, due to the unique challenges that these things bring to marriage. It was great to read about fathers enforcing their desire to participate more and the guilt that mothers can get from getting the ways of those fathers. It is a complex situation and the author explains it well.
Overall, this was a great examination into marriage and some of the different ways that we all choose to do it. I thought it was interesting in the beginning when she mentions that homosexual couples have a greater tendency to create relationships that "both partners felt were fair and supportive to each other" and attributes this to that they don't have to overcome traditional gender roles. The book focuses exclusively on heterosexual couples after that and how some have overcome those traditions and how others intended to but did not, and still others never even wanted to.
I enjoyed it and definitely recommend it to anyone getting married and debating what kind of marriage they want. ( )