Love, Pamela by Pamela Anderson.

BIBLIOGRAPHIC DETAILS:
-Print: Available – (Bib info from Amazon website: Hardcover) COPYRIGHT: January 31, 2023; ISBN-13: 978-0063226562; PUBLISHER: Dey Street Books; LENGTH: 256 pgs.
-Digital: (Bib info from Amazon Kindle edition) COPYRIGHT: January 31, 2023; PUBLISHER: William Morrow (Dey Street Books); FILE: 3162 KB; LENGTH: 249 pgs.
*Audio: (Info from Libby) COPYRIGHT: January 30, 2023; PUBLISHER: HarperAudio; DURATION: approx. 5 hours; Unabridged (LAPL MP3)
Feature Film or tv: No.

SERIES: No.

CHARACTERS: (Not comprehensive)
-Pamela Denise Anderson Lee – Autobiographer
-Gerry Anderson – Brother
-Tommy Lee – Husband (m. 1995; div. 1998)
-Kid Rock – Husband (m. 2006; div. 2007)
-Rick Salomon – Husband (m. 2007; ann. 2008) (m. 2011; div. 2015)
-Barry Anderson – Father
-Carol Anderson – Mother


SUMMARY/ EVALUATION:
-Selection: My husband mentioned something about Pamela Anderson’s finances, and then, a few days later, while in the Barnes and Noble bookstore, I spotted this autobiography. Certain that Don would enjoy listening to it, I sought it out through Libby and borrowed an LAPL audio version. ( )

Its weird to understand Andreson more as an adult... because all I remember growing up and (with the help of crap views from my own family life) is that she was a big boobed easy woman... so it was definitely eye opening (though I am ashamed to admit it) that she was way more complex than that narrow point of view that I grew up with. I was not expecting the quotes of history and art...I appreciate her openness about her views on sexual freedom even if I dont understand. I recognize the person there that isnt who they were as a child, at the personal growth and understand, and the healthier choices she made to not be the people who she grew up around... I see more room for growth, but what human couldn't say the same for themselves? Not a single one of us. ( )

Pamela's Book: Expecting More



This book serves as a complementary piece to the Netflix movie, presenting Pamela's story in her own words. Surprisingly concise, it is evident that it is not ghostwritten, as it embraces a non-linear narrative. While it doesn't delve extensively into her relationships, apart from Tommy Lee, Pamela's emphasis on not wanting to be defined by the men in her life is a crucial aspect of her story. Interestingly, she discusses Julian Assange more than her husbands.

It may not be considered the most captivating read in the world, given its simplicity and occasionally uneven pacing with interspersed poetry. However, the book does exude a sense of authenticity and honesty.

Nevertheless, don't expect to find detailed accounts of Kid Rock, Scott Baio, or steamy encounters at the Playboy Mansion. Pamela is not their biographer, and that's actually quite cool. It's understandable that people may feel bored since they anticipate sensational stories about others, but Pamela isn't obligated to provide that. We should respect her choices regarding what she chooses to share.

So, while I didn't adore this book because I desired more, I came to realize that unfortunately, everyone simply expects more from her.
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Best for:
I’m not entirely sure. I hope her fans would enjoy it.

In a nutshell:
Pamela Anderson provides the Cliff’s Notes version of her biography.

Worth quoting:
N/A

Why I chose it:
When the limited series about the sex tape of Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee was released this year, Anderson was vocal in that she had not given her consent for her story to be told that way, so I chose not to watch the show. I thought I’d pick up her memoir to hear what she has to say about her own life in her own words, sort of as a way to counteract that.

What it left me feeling:
A bit sad

Review:
I appreciate that Anderson has been given a chance to speak for herself. She has made some decisions about how she presents herself publicly that some people don’t agree with (posing for Playboy, starring in a TV show where she mostly just wore a bathing suit), with those same people forming opinions about her that likely don’t align with reality. Some people probably know her for her association with PETA as well, which might also impact their views of her.

What these folks probably don’t expect, based on stereotypes, is that Anderson is very well-read, and very interested in literature, the arts, and all manner of activism.

I didn’t have much of an opinion on Anderson before reading this book; after reading it, I probably am less inclined to seek out her work. She’s clearly been through a lot in her life, and has managed to really take control of her future and build her own story, and I think that’s wonderful. I also don’t think we would enjoy spending time with each other.

Which is fine! That’s not the point of a memoir - it’s not about liking or disliking the author; it’s about the author sharing their version of their story, in the hopes that people who only know one part of them might know more. With that comes the risk, of course, that the knowledge will lead some people to become less of a fan, or less interested in the person in general, and that’s happened here. Prior to reading this, I would say I was truly ambivalent about Anderson until I saw that the TV series was made without her consent. Now … eh?

Many things led me to this conclusion - here are just a couple. She sounds very judgmental of women who choose medicated over unmedicated births (I also just generally cringe when people refer to one type of way of giving birth as natural, as though birth could be artificial). And this is yet another celebrity promoting crypto and blockchain. I feel like a lot of memoirs released in the last couple of years are not going to age well in this area… But also - this is a very short memoir. I appreciate she can share what she chooses, but it definitely felt a bit disjointed and a bit like the abridged version in a way that I haven’t experienced with most other memoirs.

When thinking of how to best sum up what I walked away with from this book, I come to this conclusion: like all people, Anderson is complex. She and I have next to nothing in common. I think people should leave her alone and not watch the tape that was stolen and published without her consent. And I likely will not really think about her again unless a story about her pops up in my news feed.

Recommend to a Friend / Keep / Donate it / Toss it:
Donate it ( )

3.75 You don’t need to read this book if you watched the documentary. She had a lot of relationships but she barely touches on any of them, even Tommy. She has more to say about Tommy but it’s still very brief. It’s obvious she didn’t have help writing this book but she is a good writer. I just think the book is very underwhelming. I felt the documentary was better because you could actually see what she was feeling. I think she could have used this book opportunity to say more. ( )