This is a surprising little book because at first glance it seems really light (due to its format and title) but it actually contains a surprising range of helpful and insightful information gleaned from various well-respected child development theorists. It's full of practical and humane tips about mealtime, tantrums, potty training, sleep, preschool, communication, etc. and I really think every parent of a toddler would gain something from reading it. I especially liked her comments on the issue of "spoiling" kids- basically she (along with Penelope Leach) argues not to fear spoiling your child because no amount of love, attention, physical affection, time spent, or even toys/gifts can be too much. "Spoiled" kids are actually quite lonely and deprived of parental attention and thus act out in a bullying/obnoxious manner but children who are showered with attention tend to in turn treat others (including their parents) with respect. ( )